Good luck. This is the first comment ive seen regarding rekindling with exes. I have a deep sorted history with my ex whom i was engaged to and lived.
We met when i was fifteen and just going through a horrible and traumatic split between my own parents and his divorcing as well a pastors son and infidelity splitting up his family. We met inv very conservative boarding school. At any rate, we ended up losing our virginity to eachother, getting pregnant at 18, miscarriage, abandonment by my own parents, subsequient abusive relationship of my moms, me being raped by a co worker…we walked through all this together women looking sex Trolley Square Delaware best friends first and foremost.
We new every inch of eachother inside and out anf had the kind of chemistry that doesnt fade. Our chemistry wasnt just physical…it was so emotional. I loved him with every single cell of my being-physical, emotional, spiritual. However, as we grew, he was a young twenty something who grew up in a staunchly conservative home and desperately wanted to party and drink and married but looking for married lady in the same boat fun all the time he had the life of the party personality-always ready for a good time, jokester.
I was a broken girl who also grew up religiously conservative and desperately wanted him to stay home with me because i didnt want to party and we really just matured at different rates. I had pictures of us all over the place.
We were literally addicted to one. I met my husband who was in his junior year of dental school my ex had yet to complete his associates degree and had no clue what was doing with his life-just surviving. I was the married but looking for married lady in the same boat wander lust free spirit of my make him gay as compared to my rule following sister in dental hygeine school. My family never liked my ex as he was four years older than me when we first got together…and remember i was only 15…they saw him for what he was…an irresponsible kid.
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I slowly was regaining trust in. About a year later my four year old son opened the bathroom door and i was right behind him female picture poses my husband in what he claims was live porn chat.
I was married but looking for married lady in the same boat and so angry. I threatened to leave. He was again so remorseful, this time did counseling by. Supposedly finally conquered it.
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He claims to this day that he went for an actual back massage and thats all he got, even tho the police report said there was no actual massage therapy equipment in the place and fpr no person was going There for legitimate massage treatments. I have stayed because noat two reasons and two.
My babies. Teh love their daddy very much and our family unit. Also i struggle with feeling that it is a sin as a christian to divorce.
Over the years my ex and i have communicated briefly…never seeing one. Its always stayed platonic but i always knew it was dangerous territory as we both had unspoken, unresolved feelings.
I then cut off all communication out of respect for my husband. For a coulple of years.
But ove the years i go through times of missing our connection so deeply it pains me-its something my husband and i have simply cor. Husband and i are farther apart than ever…essentially just co parents…and i had a dream about my ex the other night. I have had MANY over the years but married but looking for married lady in the same boat was so struck by this one, likely because of my own marital and personal issues i have lost myself entirely in my marriage and parenthood that i didnt want to wake up.
I contacted him and told him about it.
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I think we both just latched on to whoever came our way. In addition to that, we have lots of issues. Her family and friends drive me insane. They always. When I try to discuss an issue I either get hostility and she explodes with the issues she has with me but for some reason never tried communicating, or she plays a pouting guilt trip and then giggles like a little kid american dating club I take back what I said.
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I have one child not sure what to. Since then every year I travel to where my boyfriend lives for month to spend time with. My boyfriend is not an easy person, sometimes we argue together, but we have a great sexhe has been waiting for 5 years that I get my married but looking for married lady in the same boat to marry me, but I feel so guilty to leave my husband.
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